It seems my sexuality is either totally dormant, or, once, sparked and regularly active, wanting to be totally expressive.
Case in point, I'm bisexual (80% interested in relationships with men, and 20% interested in sexual encounters with women), and I'm a Top/bottom, Dom/sub switch. I'm almost completely split down the middle insofar as D/s switch goes.
Recently I've begun exploring my Dominant side for the very first time (I trained as a sub and dated Dominant Men most of my 20s), and My obedient pet and I are finding that I'm taking to the Dominant role as a fish to some very lucky water! :)
Anyway, shortly after we started playing (Me Dom, him sub), I started really strongly wanting to Serve a Dominant Man.
The feeling is so strong.
And I recall that when I was with my favorite Dominant Man, soon into our relationship I started craving sex with a woman. I asked his permission, he granted it, and I had a transcendental encounter with a woman I'd had a longtime mutual crush on who was finally single, and who, as it turned, out, had been best friends with the Dominant Man when they were teens! So in this way I feel I had the Dominant Man's blessing twice over!
When I'm in a loving, sexual relationship with a man, after a couple of months I need to be with a woman - just once physically, or in a romantic relationship with one, if there's no sex. Just to have both a female and a male presence in my romantic life.
And as a Dom I seem to really need some sub activity in my life, too - meaning, to express it.
I wonder how many switches go through this. I'm sure it's pretty common :)
Hope you're having a good day today, and thanks for reading.