Tuesday, September 22, 2015

When One of My Sides Plays, The Others Want to Play Too

It seems my sexuality is either totally dormant, or, once, sparked and regularly active, wanting to be totally expressive.
 Case in point, I'm bisexual (80% interested in relationships with men, and 20% interested in sexual encounters with women), and I'm a Top/bottom, Dom/sub switch. I'm almost completely split down the middle insofar as D/s switch goes.
 Recently I've begun exploring my Dominant side for the very first time (I trained as a sub and dated Dominant Men most of my 20s), and My obedient pet and I are finding that I'm taking to the Dominant role as a fish to some very lucky water! :)
 Anyway, shortly after we started playing (Me Dom, him sub), I started really strongly wanting to Serve a Dominant Man.
 The feeling is so strong.
 And I recall that when I was with my favorite Dominant Man, soon into our relationship I started craving sex with a woman. I asked his permission, he granted it, and I had a transcendental encounter with a woman I'd had a longtime mutual crush on who was finally single, and who, as it turned, out, had been best friends with the Dominant Man when they were teens! So in this way I feel I had the Dominant Man's blessing twice over!
 When I'm in a loving, sexual relationship with a man, after a couple of months I need to be with a woman - just once physically, or in a romantic relationship with one, if there's no sex. Just to have both a female and a male presence in my romantic life.
 And as a Dom I seem to really need some sub activity in my life, too - meaning, to express it. 
 I wonder how many switches go through this. I'm sure it's pretty common :)
 Hope you're having a good day today, and thanks for reading.

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