Sunday, March 27, 2016

Have you visited my Bandcamp page?

Dear Friendular Type Units!

As it may have been drummed and harped into ya by now :) all of my musical CDs are available for review and sale-ation at CD Baby. However, I also have them at Bandcamp, where you can hear all the tracks of the albums posted there, plus do the same of my spoken word guided meditations Affirmations for Survivors: Self-Love, and Affirmations for Survivors: Spirituality (released in 2007 under my self-assigned spiritual name of Amethyste Rah).

I would LOVE for you to explore this storefront, and really get your CX groove on there! Sure, they're available for purchase there as well, but my real bread and butter of online digital music download sales seems to be coming from The Spotifies ( so iffn' you happen to have an account there, do search my name (properly spelled with two E's not just one, please :)  ) and support my art/work, and therefore, life.

You know I appreciate you, because everything I do shows it!

Much love to you on this sunny Easter Sunday,

Cassendre Xavier

(aka Amethyste Rah, aka Amrita Waterfalls, aka Endowed Goddess)

renaissance negresse

(Award-winning multi-media healing artist & Community cultural arts organizer)

Saturday, March 19, 2016

My Clit Is An Outie

​by Amrita Waterfalls

I was rubbing ointment

On my bum foot

The tendon of the right

And I was wagging

My fingers were rubbing

Quickly back and forth

Back and forth to get it in

The ointment on my bum foot

And I recalled something I'd seen

A woman comedian talking about

A move that men can do

To a woman's pussy with their fingers

She talked about what works and what doesn't

What feels good to women and what doesn't

The gesture, a fast rubbing back and forth

With the tips of the fingers

Is one that could be pleasurable to most

Clits and pussies, but not mine

I have a big clit

My clit is an outie

My clit is like

A small dick

And you don't rub a dick

Back and forth back and forth

With the tips of your fingers

You suck it

You lick it a little, and you massage it

But mostly you suck it

That's what my clit likes

That's what I love to feel on my clit and pussy

I like it licked and sucked and licked

And sucked some more

Gently, passionately, at turns firmly and softly

My clit is an outie

Lick it

And suck it


Just like that.

​(c) Copyright 2016 by Amrita Waterfalls​, the sexy side of Cassendre Xavier. All rights reserved.

Thursday, March 17, 2016

Tin Angel show Canceled!

Dear Friends,

Due to lack of advance ticket sales, my show with Rupert Wates scheduled for Wednesday, March 23rd at Tin Angel was canceled today at my request. 
 I understand that many people do purchase their tickets at the door, and I could've reminded folks to buy tickets online to ensure that the show did go on, but it just felt right to let this dream go for now.
 When the time and conditions are perfect, you will see us again :)

Love, light, and orgasms,


Tuesday, March 15, 2016

I Just Updated the Erotica Page of My Website!

Updated 15 March 2016
“If you bring forth that which is within you, that which is within you will save you. If you do not bring forth that which is within you, that which is within you will destroy you.” -Jesus Christ, according to the Gnostic Gospel of Thomas
“At 38 I decided to completely accept my sexuality plus design my own religion. Why should others have all the God and unashamed sex?” -Rev. CX (Ordained Interfaith Minister since September 2010)
Since 1991 I have ministered in my own ways through the creative and healing erotic arts. Since 1996 I have wanted to publicly share my erotic journey, but either released nothing or very little due to fear. In 2016 I turned 47 and it is now or never, fear or no fear. I’m coming out erotically bit by bit day by day and it feels fantastic, freeing, and safe.
By keeping the focus on my mission of sharing joy and healing (including of my own self as a child sexual abuse survivor reclaiming and celebrating my sexuality), of uplifting and supporting others on their sexual exploration journey, along with the love of erotic friends and my spiritual sex mentors beginning with Mary Magdalene and as always, my angels, I am enjoying the journey immensely.
You are invited to take the journey with us at:, where I write my erotic blogs and occasional “With Pleasure” positive sexuality museletter.
For the exceptionally bold, progressive, and adventurous among you – you who do not fear the explicit, I am Endowed Goddess on FetLife and xhamster
So, there you have it. It’s ALL out there now. Don’t say I didn’t warn ya! ;)
Seriously, though, kids. Just have fun and play safe.
With pleasure,
*Amrita Waterfalls
[*Amrita is Sanskrit for “nectar” or “ambrosia” and it is a term commonly used in Taoist and Tantric sex circles. Image: “Black Robe Sensual”. Taken by one of my erotic friends, under my artistic and other direction, of course. ;) ]

How To Keep Your Man Energized at His Job

Text message:

I'm very slowly and very lightly tickling your face, with my cunt, from a female superior position, wearing a mini-skirt with no panties. Also I love you. :)

Next message:

Also the reason I'm not wearing any panties is that after I took them off in front of you, I rubbed the wet crotch on your nose and mouth, and then made you put them on for me.


(c) Copyright 2016 by Amrita Waterfalls aka Cassendre Xavier. All rights reserved, and more information available at (Permission is granted to reprint all or part of this writing, provided the proper credit and website link are included. Thank you for sharing ethically!)

Amrita Waterfalls is Endowed Goddess on FetLife:
and xhamster:

Tuesday, March 1, 2016

8 Steps to Holistic and Spiritual Sexuality: Amrita Waterfalls Speaks

Dear Friends!

Please enjoy my new Wisdom Magazine article "8 Steps to Holistic and Spiritual Sexuality: Amrita Waterfalls Speaks" at

I've written for Wisdom Magazine since 2009.


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