Recently I decided to remove my disdain for casual sex as it may have been blocking my attraction to and/or the arrival of a highly compatible primary partner (soulmate/twin flame type), by instead using the energy of partnersex pleasure and orgasms towards a positive intention or goal. I had been doing this with my solosex orgasms already, but hadn't considered doing it with a sex partner that I didn't have a romantic relationship with.
The difference is that I am not doing it WITH them. I am still channeling my own sexual energy - it's just my energy through sex with another persun.
I have done this with casual sex partners before, meaning I had a meditative and spiritual experience while they were giving me pleasure, but at the time I hadn't yet gotten tired of the dynamic of unavailable men being attracted to me for pleasure.
A few days ago I began preparing for a date that begins in less than two hours. Or pleasure session as it were. Non-romantic, casual partner of almost a year I believe, or over a year. One of my favorites!
I began drinking a lot of water, which was really good for me because I had been dehydrated for weeks, due to traveling a lot for daily errands, and not wanting to be inconvenienced by my frequent trips to public restrooms, especially the really grody ones on public transportation, which I take because I do not drive.
So, one of the good things about my pleasure sessions is that I am well hydrated for several days before, and one day after.
Another thing that happened is that this morning I took my guitar out and played it and sang for the first time in many months. I had already made progress by bringing it to my temporary residence from my office where it usually lives. I spent the last three days or so looking at but not picking it up.
My housing and creativity issues are major things I am working on right now and I am thrilled to see how things are developing.
Using my sexual energy towards positive intention and goals is very effective and I look forward to seeing how incorporating or enrolling my harem of willing and able pleasure providers will assist and support my endeavors.
Have you ever used tantra, taoist sexual practices, or sexual magick for the attainment of personal or professional goals, or to set intentions, or to bless others? Do tell!
Amrita Waterfalls (aka Endowed Goddess)
Make yourself a beautiful day!
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